By Kathryn Harry
So, you’ve finished writing your newest short story. You’re wrapping up some
last-minute edits as you come to a crossroads: what, exactly, do you plan to do with your piece? You could keep it in your drafts, only to be seen by your eyes for the foreseeable future, or you could share it with others, showing it to friends or submitting to a literary magazine. The prospect, while appealing in theory, only leaves a heavy sense of fear coiling in your gut. So, how do you do it? How do you get over the fear of publicly sharing your writing? If you find yourself wondering something similar, perhaps consider these tips:
START SMALL
Always remember that you don’t have to push yourself more than what is necessary for your growth. While it is important to test your comfort zone in this area, there is no need to take broad strokes right off the bat. Maybe jumping into public readings or posting your work feels too out-of-reach at first—that’s perfectly okay. Doing things on a smaller scale, like submitting
your work to a feedback studio online which eliminates face-to-face feedback, or even reading your finished pieces aloud to only yourself, can be beneficial. These outlets are great building blocks for preparing to share your work with others on a larger scale as they make you more comfortable with the idea over time.
SELF REFLECT
Oftentimes, we are our own harshest critic. The mindset you hold when presenting your work to others can completely make or break the experience and what you gain from it. It is imperative that you show yourself grace when sharing your work with others. It can be nerve-wracking, of course, but remember that it is an opportunity for growth above everything. Do your best to approach each opportunity with a sense of confidence—as the age-old saying goes, “fake it ‘till you make it.” This can be difficult at first when sharing work that you have put time and effort into, but as time goes on you’ll find the confidence becomes easier to summon. By keeping a calm and clear head, you’ll be able to glean more from the experience.
ACKNOWLEDGE THE FEAR; DO IT ANYWAY
It is perfectly normal to feel nervous when branching out in this way. Sharing your work with others is a big step in the creative process, and for many, one of the most terrifying. It can be a daunting task, putting your hard work into the hands of the public. But that doesn’t mean it is something to avoid completely. If it is something you truly want to do, then it’s a matter of proceeding with your desires in spite of the fear. Allow yourself to understand where your apprehensions are coming from rather than avoiding them, and persevering while armed with this knowledge, is sometimes the only way to get the job done.
Ultimately, sharing your writing with others is no easy feat. It can be awkward and nerve-wracking, but it is an opportunity for so much growth as a writer. Receiving constructive feedback on your work, or really impacting someone with your words for the first time, can be formative experiences in your writing career, and the fear of taking that step should not be the factor that prohibits you from such things. Now, when staring at the finished pages before you, unsure of what to do with your next finished piece, you can remember that sharing it publicly doesn’t have to be off the table.